Smiling woman with curly hair wearing a white sweater in a studio setting.

About Me


Bridging Cultures.
Building Communities.
Creating Change.

I'm a cultural educator and community builder who believes in the power of authentic connection. As a descendent of Lao war refugees, sibling to a disabled adult, and firsts of many, I learned early that transformation happens when we create spaces where everyone can truly participate and contribute their unique perspectives.

What I Do

Cultural Bridge Building:

Transforming how organizations approach cultural awareness and community development

Practical Innovation:

Converting complex concepts into actionable strategies that create lasting impact

Community Leadership:

Building sustainable, welcoming spaces in both professional and social environments

Lived Experience

Bringing authentic perspectives from my journey as a child of war refugees, disability advocate, and cross-cultural educator

My Story

Some people find their purpose through careful planning. I found mine by living at intersections: between refugee and American cultures, between advocacy and education, between corporate leadership and dance communities. These experiences taught me that meaningful change happens when we combine cultural understanding with practical action.

Fun Facts

I was born and raised in the Tri-Cities, Washington.

I do not drink coffee and prefer hot chai with oat milk.

What does your name mean?

I’ve been told my name Rassamy means ‘a bright star.’

Also have heard it translates to ✨ celestial goddess 💫 so we’re going with that.

What was your first job?

My first paying job besides being my brother’s caregiver was a gas station attendant! Being the first in my family to go to college, I studied and graduated with a degree in teaching Special Education and I taught for more than 11 years.

How did you start in dance?

During college in Spokane, my then-boyfriend surprised me for my birthday with couples dancing lessons in East Coast Swing. After, we learned a variety of other partner dances until I discovered West Coast Swing (WCS) and have been hooked ever since.

I ended up marrying that boyfriend, raising two kids together, and creating a family-life balance near Seattle, where I am a dance community organizer.

My Core Values

Cultural Courage

  • I believe in having brave conversations about culture and identity

  • Understanding our roots empowers our growth

Authentic Leadership

  • Leadership means creating space for others to shine

  • Transparency builds trust, even when it's uncomfortable

Practical Innovation

  • Theory is good, but action creates change

  • Innovation should serve the community, not just sound impressive

Community First

  • Strong communities lift everyone higher

  • True inclusion happens through consistent practice, not just policies

Lifelong Learning

  • Every challenge is an opportunity to grow

  • The best teachers remain eternal students

Joyful Justice

  • Creating change can (and should) bring joy

  • Serious work doesn't always need a serious face